How To Attract And Seduce Women
Knowing how to attract and seduce women is one of the most important skill that a man can have. It is tricky because different women look for different things in a man, but don’t think for one second that money or cars are what attract women. Even men who are most successful with women may not always attract or seduce every woman they want. But they attract enough and can just ignore anyone who is not interested, and look for the next.
If you ask a woman for a date with no introduction, it is likely that she will say no, and may even get scared. Although women are attracted to men by looks, scent, etc., they need time to feel comfortable with a man before they will accept a date. There are a lot of scary men in the world and most women will not take chances on someone they do not feel they know.
The good news is that you can get them to feel they know you with just a couple of minutes of conversation. During this time you need to be confident without being pushy. Be clear in your mind about who you are, and that you are not desperate for a date.
It is important to listen to what the woman wants to say, and to make her feel special. You can do this easily with a compliment that is particular to her. Before you approach her, take a moment to notice something special about her that you can compliment her on. Your compliment must be honest – something that you really like about her.
Your compliment should never be related to anything that women tend to be sensitive about, for example body size, weight or shape. Of course it should not be sexually related either, because that would make her feel uncomfortable at this stage.
For most women it is fine to compliment her on her eyes or her smile. If she is very pretty, she probably gets a lot of compliments like this and you need to be more original. Try complimenting her hands or her voice.
After that you can use what psychologists call ‘the constraint of choice’ to make sure that her only option is you. When a person is given only one option, they are more likely to take it. So for example, if you ask for her phone number, she has the choice of either give it to you, or not. That’s two options and one of them is not your desired outcome.
Instead, give her the choice of either to give you her phone number or to arrange a date now. Now she feels she has a choice, but she really only has one choice – you. She is much more likely to give you her number this way.
As you become more used to doing this you will succeed with more women and that in itself will boost your confidence and get you more dates. That’s partly why older men tend to be more successful with women. Learning how to attract and seduce women is a skill that needs to be practiced.
