Flirting Advice For Men
by Joseph Matthews
We will begin with a question.
Have you ever been stuck in the friend mode with a woman you meet and like, despite all your best romantic efforts?
Do you know the reason for this occurrence?
More than likely you did know how to flirt with her properly.
Understand: Flirting is a very important part of the attraction process, and if you do it wrong (or worse yet, not at all!), the odds of blowing your chance with the girl go up significantly.
What is the importance of flirting?
The answer is simple really; the process of flirting creates sexual tension.
When there is no sexual tension within your interactions, there will be no attraction. When you do not have attraction, this places you in a different category.
You guessed it - A FRIEND!
So when you know the proper way to flirt with a girl, your chances of attracting her go up exponentially.
Flirting is no big secret as many might consider, flirting is a lot of fun. Flirting does not work only if it is not done properly.
See, there’s an art to flirting with a woman. Flirting is all about communicating your sexual interest in the girl, without coming right out and SAYING it.
These are mixed signals.
Your actions are communicating one thing, but your words are saying something completely different.
Some of the more common mistakes of flirting with women that men make may include:
MISTAKE #1: They Are Way Too Obvious
Some men find it overwhelming when they feel attraction to a woman and then spit it all out at once letting her know how they feel. This type of presentation of information places the woman at a disadvantage of deciding what she feels for the man.
Keep in mind, by not laying the groundwork properly beforehand, you risk the chance of finding rejection from the woman.
MISTAKE #2: Not Being Obvious Enough!
If you make no effort to communicate your interest, yet think the woman will just know what you feel, when you do make a move it surprises the woman, because up until that point she has no idea of your interest.
MISTAKE #3: Relying On Words Rather Than Actions
A great deal of flirting has to do with what you say, but the more powerful techniques are NON-VERBAL body language stuff. Little things like an eyebrow raise, a head tilt, or a wicked smile can give new meaning to an otherwise benign remark.
MISTAKE #4: Taking Things Too Seriously
Flirting, when done right, is light and fun. When guys try and make flirting more serious romantic gestures, the tension begins to break down.
When you or the woman is not enjoying the flirting, something is wrong.
We could list more mistakes; however, this should provide you with a clear picture. Do you wonder what the right way to begin flirting is?
You’re going to want to use as much sexual innuendo as you can. This is a great way to flirt. But the key here is to be SUBTLE.
Here is an example, if you are in a bar and the woman with you orders a drink and then asks if you want something, you can jokingly say, You are not trying to get me intoxicated so you can take advantage of me, are you? Say all this of course, with a wink and a nod.
Flirting communicates your attraction, although you never come right out and say it. Flirting is a lighthearted fun form of insinuation.
Another example would be, if a girl says something raunchy or naughty to you, you might respond with something like “Stop trying to seduce me, you vixen! You know I don’t put out on the first date.”
Do you understand how all this works?
As you begin flirting more and more, you begin to get a bit more obvious about your interests, although you never really step over that line.
You will notice how the attraction between you and the woman begins to build. Then one day you find that a harmless bit of flirting has turned into seduction.
Now the real fun begins.
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