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How To Pick Up Women Secrets

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Feeling clueless when it comes to picking up women?
Want to start picking up women, but have no idea how to do so?

Chances are no one you know can help you learn to pick up women. Your friends are probably just as clueless as you are, and your family is of no help at all. Even those "Dating Experts" you see on TV are full of it, because they have to cater to the feminist media to keep their careers on track! (And as we all know, the mainstream media doesn’t like helping guys get laid!)

Bottom line: Picking up women is not a politically-correct topic!

You want some practical advice that can really work, that you can start to use right away. Fortunately, you found this article. So let’s get started!

Let me first tell you what you DON’T need to pick up women.

You DON’T have to be "male model" good looking.

This is the biggest mistake men make. You have to realize that close to 85% of women care more about how a man makes them FEEL, rather than how he actually LOOKS.

So if you don’t think you’re a very attractive guy, don’t worry! There’s still hope for you.

Next, you DON’T have to drive a fancy car, or spend a lot of money!

Many of the best ladies men I know never spend more than $30 on a date - heck, some of them don’t even own a car! (And if they do, it usually isn’t a very nice one!)

You’ll find that women can be very forgiving when it comes to how much money you make or spend on them, if they LIKE you! And part of picking up women is to get the girl to like you, right?

Finally, you DON’T have to be famous, be a certain type of ethnicity or nationality, or anything else you can think of.

Understand: Personality trumps every other obstacle you think you have to getting a girl to like you!

When you know the right way to talk to women, nothing else matters.

You may not be able to have phenomenal success with these tactics right away if you’re just starting out. But if you take the time to start applying these tactics and actually learn from your experiences, you’ll find your success with women will dramatically improve.

You’ll want to try and go out as often as you can to talk to women - especially when you’re first starting out. You may be intimidated to go to "high pressure" environments like bars or clubs where it’s difficult to pick up women, but they are great practice grounds for you to hone your skills.

Despite where you choose to go, you need to set aside some time every day to go out and pick up women - you’ll get better the more times you do it!

You probably won’t have much success at first when you start going to clubs, but other people will actually start notice a change in you as your confidence goes up. Every success and failure in nightclubs will also helps to reinforce the things you need to do when you’re picking up women, and the things you need to avoid.

Remember: With Experience Comes MASTERY.

The most important thing to remember about going out to pick up women is to gain experience!

When you do go out to gain this valuable experience with the ladies, try and look as good as you possibly can!

(Notice here that I’m not saying you have to be "good looking." I’m saying you need to "look good." There is a big difference between the two. You don’t have any say about what you look like, but you DO have a say in your appearance - your hairstyle, the clothes you wear, what cologne you put on, etc.)

Take the time to dress as nice as you can. Find clothes that look good on you and tailor them to fit. If you’re not into fashion and don’t know where to start, ask a female friend who’s very fashion conscious to help you find the right types of clothes.

Keep in mind - you don’t NEED to dress nicely to meet women, but it will make it much easier on yourself if you do! Not only that, but the better you look, the more confident you’ll feel.

Be on the lookout for opportunities to do pickup. You can find attractive women just about anywhere. And if you notice that she’s given you the eye, it would almost be a sin not to start talking to her!

Remember - ever good pickup follows a very simple structure. This means there’s a series of steps to picking up women you can actually repeat time and time again and get the same results.

The structure is:

Find a woman.

Meet her.

Talk and Gain Rapport.

Build Attraction.

There you go - four simple steps is all you need! If you can find, meet, and gain rapport with women, you’ll find that you can build attraction with them easily.

Joseph Matthews is widely regarded as an expert on how to pick up women. Check out Joseph Matthew’s complimentary Meet Women newsletter for more tactics & strategies on how to meet and pick up women.