How To Pick Up Women

How To Pick Up Women – Pickup Artist Secrets Revealed

by Joseph Matthews

Feeling clueless when it comes to picking up women? These handy tips will help get you started on the path of success to getting the women of your dreams!

Are you looking to start picking up women, but clueless about where to start?

Chances are no one you know can help you learn to pick up women. Your friends are probably just as clueless as you are, and your family is of no help at all. Even those “Dating Experts” you see on TV are full of it, because they have to cater to the feminist media to keep their careers on track! (And as we all know, the mainstream media doesn’t like helping guys get laid!)

The fact is: Teaching guys how to pick up women is a touchy subject!

You want some practical advice that can really work, that you can start to use right away. Fortunately, you found this article. So let’s get started!

Let me first tell you what you DON’T need to pick up women.

You DON’T have to be “male model” good looking.

This is a huge mistake that almost all men make. Little do they realize that close to 85% of women place more importance on how a man makes them FEEL as opposed to how he actually LOOKS.

So if you don’t think you’re a very attractive guy, don’t worry! There’s still hope for you.

Next, you DON’T have to drive a fancy car, or spend a lot of money!

Quite a few of the best Pickup Artists I’ve ever known spend $30 or less when they go out on dates, and more than one of them doesn’t even own a car! (And the ones that do don’t drive anything special!)

You’ll find that women can be very forgiving when it comes to how much money you make or spend on them, if they LIKE you! And part of picking up women is to get the girl to like you, right?

Third, you DON’T need to be a certain ethnicity or nationality, have big muscles, be famous, or any other thing you can think of.

Look – No matter what obstacle you think you have when it comes to getting a girl to like you, having a great personality trumps them all!

When you know the right way to talk to women, nothing else matters.

Unless you’re currently a master pickup artist, you may not have a whole lot of success with women right away when using these tactics – after all, it takes time to practice and learn from your experiences. But if you actually apply what you’ve learned, you’ll soon find your success with women will skyrocket!

Go out as often as you’re able to and talk to as many women as you can, especially when you’re starting out. You don’t have to go to high-pressure environments like nightclubs where it’s difficult to pick up women, but there is no better “practice ground” in my opinion, simply because there are SO MANY women out there to pick up.

Despite where you choose to go, you need to set aside some time every day to go out and pick up women – you’ll get better the more times you do it!

You might not have a whole lot of success when you first start – but you’ll notice a change as your confidence with women begins to build. Every success or failure you experience will help teach you the things you need to do to properly pick up women, and more importantly, what NOT to do!

Remember: With Experience Comes MASTERY.

And what you’re doing when you go out to clubs and bars to pick up women is gaining experience!

When you do go out to gain this valuable experience with the ladies, try and look as good as you possibly can!

(Notice here that I’m not saying you have to be “good looking.” I’m saying you need to “look good.” There is a big difference between the two. You don’t have any say about what you look like, but you DO have a say in your appearance – your hairstyle, the clothes you wear, what cologne you put on, etc.)

Try and dress nicely – wear clothes that fit, that match, and that look good on you. If you’re hopeless when it comes to fashion, get a savvy friend to help you out.

Keep in mind – you don’t NEED to dress nicely to meet women, but it will make it much easier on yourself if you do! Not only that, but the better you look, the more confident you’ll feel.

Keep an out out for every opportunity to pick up women that comes your way. Attractive women are just about everywhere, and if you notice an opportunity to talk to one, don’t let it pass you by!

Finally, every good pick-up follows a structure. Its a series of steps you can actually REPEAT time and time again and get similar results.

The structure is:

• Find a girl.
• Meet her.
• Gain Rapport.
• Build Attraction.

That’s it! Four simple steps. You’ll find that if you’re able to effectively meet women and gain rapport with them, you can build attraction quite easily.

Sign up for Joseph Matthew’s free Meet Women Secrets newsletter for all the latest tips and methods for meeting and seducing women. Joseph Matthews is widely recognized as an expert on how to pick up women.