Pick Up Lines That Work - How To Start A Conversation
by Joseph Matthews
Pick up lines have a very bad reputation.
For example how often have you heard bad pick up lines such as:
“Did it hurt? When you fell from heaven, did it hurt?”
“Your name must be Gillet, because you’re the best a man can get.”
“Your daddy must have been a thief, because he stole the stars and put them in your eyes.”
Face it, using lines like this will cause a girl to run the other way. Pick up lines like these make you look like an idiot.
Because pick of lines such as these, which are bad get too much attention, while encouraging others to consider that all pick up lines are worthless.
This simply is not true.
Using good pick up lines actually assist you in picking up a woman.
Keep in mind that the purpose of using a pick up line is to begin a conversation.
It is as simple as that, merely to engage a woman in conversation.
You can work your magic to do what you need to get a date with her, a phone number and an emotional connection, once she begins talking to you.
If you cannot begin a conversation, you can do little else.
You not only talk to a woman, you engage her, by drawing her into a conversation, and this is the only means to continuing with your goal.
Good pick up lines help you do this.
Do you know that when most men meet women they are at a loss for words to begin talking to a woman? They try to think of something off the top of their head, while often missing the opportunity of meeting a nice woman, before they can think of something to say.
It is essential to have at least a couple of good working pick up lines, especially for those times when you are nervous and cannot think of anything original that helps you take action.
Never, consider that you can slide by with a line such as:
“Do I know you from somewhere?”
This is a lame pick up line, and all women know it, you might think yourself clever, but they will not.
Other bad pick up lines include, asking for directions, complimenting her on her clothing and telling her she looks like some big celebrity.
Why is this?
This is because these lines do not engage the woman into a conversation with you, once she answers your question, she may not show interest in conversing with you.
Avoid pick up lines that have yes and no answers. Good pick up lines get a woman to think about her reply, while inducing an emotional reaction, which encourages her to continue talking with you.
How do you engage a woman in conversation?
Asking her opinion of something is the easiest way to do this, since each woman has an opinion and they like sharing their ideas, especially about relationships.
Good pick up lines work like this, for example. Say something to the woman, like this, Hi, I need you opinion on something, do you think it is normal for a woman to try to time a pregnancy so that her baby is born within a particular zodiac sign? I would really like to hear the opinion of a woman about this subject.
Once you engage her in the conversation you may follow up with a tale of some woman who wants to be sure she and her children are astrologically compatible, to make life a bit more enjoyable as life moves along.
This can lead to various other topics of conversation, such as:
1. Children 2. Marriage 3. Astrology 4. Pregnancy 5. Relationships
The number of ways you can go with this are endless. Some of my favorite follow ups are:
“Do you think there’s something to astrology?” (then lead into more discussion about destiny or fate.)
“What is your zodiac sign?” (This can lead to talking about your sign compatibility - as a general rule, no matter what your sign is - you are compatible!)
“Do you like kids? You seem like the nurturing type.”
I could go on, but you should get the idea.
The design of a good pick up line engages a woman into deep and interesting conversations that provide you with an opportunity to get to know one another as you become familiar with each other.
This is how you engage a woman in conversation.
From that point, it should be rather easy to ask her for a telephone number and possibly set up a first date.
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